Kaum Muda yang Terbentur dan Terbentuk

Refleksi Teologis tentang Pentingnya Komunitas dalam Film “Bolehkah Sekali Saja Kumenangis”

  • Vernanda Helsa STT Amanat Agung, Indonesia
  • Ronie Tama Petra Kharitoo Barasa STT Amanat Agung, Indonesia
  • Sara Juliana Kodongan STT Amanat Agung, Indonesia
Keywords: young people, mental health, community, theological reflection

Abstract

The film "Bolehkah Sekali Saja Kumenangis" represents the reality of young people facing mental pressure and trauma due to dysfunctional family relationships. This study employs a narrative-reflective approach to analyze the impact of emotional wounds and domestic violence on mental health, including trauma and anxiety. The primary focus is on the emotional journey of the main character, Tari, towards recovery after joining the Life Mates support community, which functions as a safe, open, and inspiring space that facilitates a collective healing process. Theologically, this paper reflects on the calling of Christian communities to embody the body of Christ, embracing and serving wounded young people. Drawing upon the thoughts of theologians such as Catherine Doherty and Ed Loring, Jürgen Moltmann, and Roy Hession, this article emphasizes the urgency of building an inclusive and supportive church community. Therefore, the author encourages the church to develop support groups and a non-judgmental culture to address the mental and spiritual struggles of young people.

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Published
2024-12-27
How to Cite
Helsa, V., Barasa, R. T. P. K., & Kodongan, S. J. (2024). Kaum Muda yang Terbentur dan Terbentuk. Jurnal Pelayanan Kaum Muda, 2(2), 95–111. https://doi.org/10.47901/jpkm.v2i2.673